Trying to live an undaunted life through the arenas of faith, education, parenting and life.
Friday, November 24, 2017
Daily Letter
During my two years in Alaska I was able to work with a wonderful primary teacher named Mrs. S. Each day her students would read a letter from the board that she had written to them. It would tell them about her weekend, ask them questions and tell them what they were going to be doing that day. At some point last school year I was reminded of these letters. I had the room in my classroom, so I started writing my class a daily letter. I wrote one letter for each grade. While I only taught three grades at one school and one grade at another it was relatively simple to do. I always ended the letters with love Mrs. Wren because I believe all students should know adults care about them. It became something my students looked forward to. I have also used a grid system, but I needed change and to do something new for a while. This year I teach Preschool through Eighth Grade, so I am still searching for a way to display our daily schedule and outcomes in a small space. I am leaning towards using a computer program.
How do you display your class schedule and outcomes for the day?
Thursday, January 7, 2016
5:1
Psychologist Dr. John Gottman has found that a ratio of 5:1 for positive to negative interactions can predict whether or not a marriage will survive. His research looks specifically at marriage but researcher Dr. Barbara Fredrickson has similar data that takes the 5:1 ratio even farther. According to her research 3:1 is the ratio needed for flourishing. This, she says, is true in all situations: relationships, business, at home and at work. 3:1, 5:1. Think about all of the interactions you have throughout a day. How many would you classify as positive? How many are negative? When I think back to "bad" days, it almost always comes down to these ratios. Days that are filled with positive interactions are fun and enjoyable. Days that are filled with negative interactions are stressful, frustrating and exhausting.
Go back to that time a person annoyed you because they said or did. Think back to all of your interactions with that person. How many were positive? How many were negative? When I think about the situation the other day when I became frustrated because of something someone said, I realize that I have not had many positive interactions with this person. I would not qualify our interactions as negative necessarily, but they are not overly positive. I would qualify them as 1 negative and many neutral interactions. For me, I think this is exactly why I became frustrated. It was a negative interaction without positive ones to counteract it.
Joshua Medcalf (Train to Be Clutch) introduced me to this concept of positive interaction ratios through two of his books ('Burn Your Goals' and 'Chop Wood, Carry Water.') This information was eye opening to me and made me better understand moments when I was feeling frustrated or stressed.
As teachers it is easy to focus on what our students are not doing and sometimes it feels impossible to create a positive interaction, but this research proves how important it truly is for ourselves and our students. I know how I feel when the majority of my interactions with my husband are negative. Now, imagine how a student feels has they go through a day at school and they receive only a few positive comments but are constantly corrected.
I have found that class goes smoother and I feel better when I am focusing on giving my students positive feedback. It is not always easy, but I have found hammering students on all the things they are doing wrong is also not beneficial. As I finish my first week back since Winter Break, I am going to continue to focus on being more intentional on giving positive feedback. Humans in general are not told often enough about all the great things we are doing. Yes, we can all get better and we all have room to grow, but we are also already doing great things. We need to take small moments to enjoy and acknowledge these acts of greatness.
Tuesday, August 4, 2015
Why I Deactivated My Class Dojo Account
Last week my husband asked if I would walk to the bank after summer reading program to pick up our checks. On my way there, I stopped and talked to a former student of mine who was riding his bike around town. I asked him about his summer and he told me about being pumped for football, planning how he was going to get to practice and which friends were in his class this year. I realized after talking to this boy for a few minutes that I did not recognize his voice and I could not remember the last time I had a 1:1 conversation with him. I know I had conversations about behavior and paying attention, but I don't remember just talking with this boy.
At the beginning of this week I was finishing up a run around town when I came across another former student playing in front of her house. I asked her about her summer and she told me about what she has been up to and how she is excited because she got the teacher she wanted again this year. Just like a week ago, I realized I did not recognize her voice. She is a very quiet student and I don't remember really talking to her.
These interactions made me sad and sick to my stomach. I teach music, so I see all students in the school every week. With students constantly entering and leaving my room, it is easy to miss the small opportunities to talk and interact with my students. This also helped in my reflection about being intentional. I have to be intentional about my interactions with my new staff and students. These two interactions and my reflection afterwards led me to deactivating my Class Dojo account.
I am at a bigger school this year and my number one goal is to take advantage of every opportunity I can to interact with my students. I loved many of the capabilities of Class Dojo, but I always struggled with using it consistently and I felt like it got in the way of interactions between my students and myself. Now, this could be because of me the user and have little to do with the program. I am not sure, but I do no that for me personally, it was not working so it was time to come up with a new system. As much as I love technology, sometimes a paper grade book, post-it notes and face to face communications work the best.
Saturday, June 27, 2015
Student Portfolios
I am striving towards using more written work during music class. I think having students write music and practice these skills is a vital component (one that I usually overlook). In order to make the implementation easier for me, I have been brainstorming ideas. So far, I have come up with the following setuo, which I hope will allow me to collect and organize student work quickly and easily.
I am going to have a file folder for each student and they will be in number order by grade and class. Students will write their class number on their papers and as they will line up in number order. As they leave they will make a pile which will be in reverse order so all I have to do is put them in their folders. As the school year progresses, I think most of my classes will eventually be able to file by themselves.
Handout Ideas
1. Listening log
2. Instrument identification
3. Listening coloring activities
4. Daily/weekly reflection sheets
5. Exit slips
Monday, May 25, 2015
We Learn
Sunday, May 10, 2015
Happy
Recorder
EEG AA BGE AAAA GA
Orff
1111 2222 11121
Notes 1: ACE
Notes 2: GBD
*I am a percussionist so I taught my students how to hold three mallets. Some players just played one or two notes and a few played all three notes.
Drums
High Hat
Snare Drum
Crazy Train
Wednesday, April 15, 2015
Day 15: How Has Social Media Impacted Your Classroom?
Professionally, it has connected my classroom with others. It is opened the door of my small, rural Illinois classroom to those around the country and the globe.
My students have Skyped with a famous author and performed for other students. Through these experiences they were able to learn from students outside of their immediate area.
I constantly tell my students that they need to thank Twitter for the lesson we about to begin. Without Twitter I would not be the teacher that I am today. The connections I have build on Twitter help me stay motivated, encourage me and help me learn new things. Social Media has become an important tool in my classroom and for me as an educator.
Wednesday, April 8, 2015
No News is Good News
I understand the purpose behind this quote, but is it really what is best for humans? I asked my students today (3rd graders) how many of them ever felt unappreciated and I was saddened by how many raised their hands.
People want to know they are doing the right thing, they want to know people are noticing their actions.
I recently read about a study that found that 5:1 is the perfect ratio for positives to negatives when it comes to performance. I read somewhere else that when you get to a 2:1 (it might have been 3:1, I can't remember exactly) is a state of clinical depression.
If I asked you to remember events from last week/last month/last year, what would you remember first? The good memories or the bad ones? Our brains are wired to remember the negative. We remember when we felt embarrassed, hurt, sad or when things went badly. This does not mean that bad things happen more than the good, it simply means that we are focusing more of our energy on these times.
The study on the ratio of positive to negative interactions really struck me as a teacher an a person. Think about one of your classes. Now, think about "that kid." You know the one I mean. The one who can't sit still, can't raise their hand before speaking out, the one who has to constantly be reminded of something. Now, think about list from their perspective. How many times a day is their behavior corrected (this is a negative interaction)? How many times are they told something positive?
I see my students for 40 minutes two times a week and I can tell you right now I know there are students who hear way too many negatives from me compared to positives. It makes me sad to even consider what the ratio may be. It is not even close to 5 positives to ever negative.
We need to stop living in a world where no news is good news. We need to share with our students and our communities about the positive things that are happening. It is better for our students and it is the only way the community will hear about the great things going on in our schools.
Thank you for reading!
Friday, April 3, 2015
I Am the Drummer of a Never Ending Jazz Ensemble
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
Newsletters
Sunday, March 1, 2015
iDoceo
Being Right
Music Trophy

This summer the art teacher shared a classroom management book with me. "Classroom Management for Art, Music and PE Teachers" by Michael Linsin is filled with many ideas on how to setup a classroom management plan that takes in consideration all of the challenges that are specific for specials teachers.
Tuesday, August 26, 2014
Day 360: Twitter in the Music Room (Technology Tuesday)

Monday, August 11, 2014
Day 345: Music Is Incredible (Material Monday)
Material Monday-Bulletin Boards
I am responsible for one bulletin board in the main entry way of my school. The last two years I have had a "This Month In Music" board and I would include pictures of what each grade was doing for that month, our song of the month and our composer of the month. This year I decided I need to mix it up a little (plus the art teacher, whose board is right next to mine, had a fantastic looking one and I decided mine looked extra lame compared to hers.)
Our reading theme this year is superheros so I am trying to find a way to tie in that theme into my classroom. I know I saw this idea online, but I cannot remember where and numerous Google searches have failed to find the link. To start the year I am going to use the Incredibles as my theme. It is going to say Music Is Incredible and have pictures of the Incredibles. I am also thinking about adding QR codes and information about what is going on in class and how to connect with our classroom through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.
What are your favorite bulletin board ideas?
Thank you for sharing.
Tuesday, August 5, 2014
Day 339: New Ideas for Gamification (Technology Tuesday)
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
Day 325: Media Portfolios (Technology Tuesday)
Technology Tuesday
During fourth quarter I decided to have my students use Google Sites to create a Portfolio for all of their projects from the semester. Basically it was just a way for them to link all of their projects in one spot. This is not only very useful for me and others who want to see their work, but it also introduce them to building a website. I created a template on Google Sites and had my students add their content to it. This helped save time and limited a few steps for my students to have to do themselves.
How do you use portfolios in your classroom?
Thank you for reading.