Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Time to be Selfish

I don't know if it is a women thing or if it is just part of my personality, but I have learned (the hard way) that I have a hard time asking for help.  After the birth of my first child, I was more uncomfortable than necessary because I refused to ask the nurses for help.  I did not want to bother them, so I did not ask for things as often as I should have.  I learned my lesson and recovery after my second child went a lot better. Even though I asked for help more often, the nurses never once seemed bothered.  There are people in this world who genuinely want to help those around them.

My husband tells me I am an independent, self sufficient women.  I have learned that this is also code for being stubborn.  I expect to be able to take care of everything and do everything myself.  As I have added a husband, a commute, a job and two kids to the equation, at times it becomes too much to handle all on my own.  Unfortunately, I am still working on learning to recognize the signs of feeling overwhelmed so I can take steps to avoid a frustration/stress induced meltdown.  Thankfully I have a husband who is supportive and is learning to recognize the signs so that he can help me.

It sounds selfish, but we need to take care of ourselves.  As moms and wives, I know this can be hard.  For me, it is extremely hard! We need to put our own well being as priority one.  During an airplane crises, they tell you to put your air mask on first because if you are not taken care of, you cannot take care of your family.  Now, I realize there is a fine line.  I cannot become extravagant in my mission to "take care of myself." It is not in the best interest of my family or myself for me to sleep 12 hours a day, miss work or other responsibilities and call it "taking care of myself."  However, I do believe it is important and vital to make time for myself during the day.  Even if that is an hour broken up throughout the day.  Finding balance does not mean equal.  Finding time to pray, Bible Study, journal, sleep and exercise are important for my mental, physical and emotional well being.  When I take care of myself, I am better able to take care of those around me. 

How do you make taking care of yourself a priority?  What activities help you be at your best?

Reading

How do you keep track of your reading?

One of my monthly focuses for April is to use GoodReads more consistently. After a month of using it regularly, I have increased the amount of time I read and it has allowed me to keep track of books I want to read and ones that I have read. I read a lot of short eBooks and I find I forget to write these down.  I also go through periods where I read many books in a short amount of time.  Taking the time to enter these into GoodReads (or any other program) is something I often forget, but it is important.  I also would like to spend more time reflecting and writing about what I am reading, so that I can make sure I gain the most I can from each book.

I also appreciate the social aspect of GoodReads. I signed up for a reading challenge and it motivates me to make reading a priority.

Tough Choices

We stopped at Walgreens over Thanksgiving Break and as we were shopping another car backed into our vehicle and left the parking lot.  Luckily, two employees saw the car and were able to get a description of the other car.  Unfortunately they were unable to see the licence plate and at this time we have not heard anything more about who hit our car.


Life is full of choices and we make hundreds of choices a day: what to wear, what to eat, what to cook, what to buy, what to do, what to say and the choices go on and on. Some of these choices are easy, some are of little consequence and others are very important. Sometimes I don't feel like doing the right thing or saying the right thing and sometimes doing the right thing is hard, but the consequences can be severe. 

Being a mom is teaching me a whole new level of patience. I know how I want to treat my child and I know she deserves to be treated kindly and respectfully. It does not make me proud to admit I have raised my voice at her when I am tired or don't feel like dealing with something she is doing. How am I going to respond to her when she is cute and loveable? How am I going to respond when she is screaming, I am tired and it's the middle of the night? It's hard to be kind. It's hard to be respectful, all the time. The consequence of being rude or mean to my child ruins far more than one positive action gains and at the end of the day it is worth it to be kind. I would much rather continue to build on our positive relationship than spend even more energy trying to fix what I broke in a moment of frustration. The same philosophy works in terms of all relationships. 

The person who hit my car would have had a consequence had they taken responsibility for their actions. If they are caught now, their consequences will be more severe. 

We have choices everyday. Are you going to admit you hit the car or drive away? Are you going to treat those around you respectfully even if they don't deserve it or you don't feel like it?

We make hundreds of choices a day. Choose wisely. 

Audio Books

I am thankful for a random conversation with a coworker that reminded me about audio books. I spent most of this school listening to podcasts and I enjoy them but sometimes I like something more in depth. Also, sometimes I have to wait for new episodes and I am stuck with nothing to listen to.  I find that I feel more overwhelmed when I don't get a chance to read. Reading is time for myself and a chance to learn and grow.

My library uses the program Axis360 which allows access to eBooks and audio books. The best part is it is free. Most audio books I have found are around ten hours which means I can finish about a book a week if I listen during my commute. I feel like I am now using this time to the best of my ability and taking advantage of this time to learn and grow.

If you enjoy reading but are short on time, I strongly suggest audio books. Plus, there are so many great programs that allow access to audio books.

Sunday, July 24, 2016

June Update: Toddler To Do List

Summer seems to move very quickly and I have found over the years that having a plan helps me stay on track and ensures that I accomplish most of what I set out to in May.  July was supposed to be full of traveling and family time, but due to a few unexpected events, our traveling has been limited.  I am still trying to make sure kiddo and I spend time together and that she is exposed to experiences that help her learn and grown.

1. Visit different Zoos
2. Read A LOT of Books (85 as of this morning)
3. Visit different Parks
4. Splash Pad
5. Go Swimming

6. VBS
7. Summer Reading Program
8. Picnic Outside
9. Build a Fort
10. Play with Bubbles

11. Draw with Chalk
12. Go on Walks

13. Watch Fireworks
14. Watch a Parade
15. Go Hiking
16. Play with Cousins
17. Play with Friends
18. Visit Family

19. Finger Paint
20. Eat an Ice Cream Cone
21. Go on a Bike Ride
22. Spend Time with Mommy and Daddy

23. Go on a Road Trip
24. Play in a Sprinkler
25. Visit State Parks (1)
26. Paint with Water
27. Play Catch
28. Go Camping (even if it's in the back yard)


Monday, May 2, 2016

Emergency Sub Plans

I thought I was organized with my sub plans but this year has proven I was wrong. At the beginning of the year, I was excited about the ability to create personalized Quaver Lessons for sub plans. It seemed perfect! I could create the lessons at home if needed and the sub could lead the students through the activities. This seemed like a great, simple way to do sub plans. Unfortunately, I quickly learned that many of our subs are not comfortable with technology and will not use it, so my great plan was out the window.

At my old schools, I would go in the night before or morning of to get sub plans organized and this seemed to work. I also rarely had to take sick days. That is, until I added a forty minute commute and a child to the mix. Once I realized that my online plan would not work, I ended up  relying on a coworker to print stuff off or make copies when I had to take an unplanned day. Worst case, I would end up dragging my daughter to school with me so I could get things setup. That is exactly what I did this morning and during those eighty minutes of driving, I realized there has to be a better way and I set out to come up with a plan. Being sick or waking up in the middle of the night with a sick child is stressful enough, having to deal with sub plans just makes everything worse.

When I know ahead of time that I am going to be gone, I try to plan activities that do not break the flow from what we are working on. I may have the sub give a test or have the students continue to work on our current project.

These sub lesson plans are for last minute days when I have to be out. Having five lessons for each grade level organized and ready to go, which allows me to pick and choose what activities the sub does based on the time of year and where we are in our lessons.
I see my students for thirty minutes, every other day (which allows me to use each lesson twice.) Some of these sub activities will take the whole period, while others I'll not. On those days I include multiple options for extra activities: read a book while students clap the rhythm to certain words, students read a book, drum freeze, music freeze or play Apple Tree or another one of their favorite singing games.

*Disclaimer - I did not develope these resources. They were either bought from a music store or found online (Pinterest or Teachers Pay Teachers.  I have included links to their websites and I take no ownership for their development.)*

My Plan
I have used these resources for sub plans this year, but my plan is to be fully prepared. This means having all materials printed, copied and ready to go. I used to keep my sub materials in a file cabinet drawer, but I have decided to use a file crate. This will allow me more space to keep everything organized. This way, I will only have call the sub caller.

Option A
Kindergarten - Instrument BINGO
First Grade - Rhythm BINGO
Second Grade - Rhythm BINGO
Third Grade - Rhythm BINGO
*Instrument BINGO
*Rhythm BINGO: the teacher before me wrote out all of the rhythms as Ta and Ti-ti so a non musical person can just say the rhythm and does not have to know what each symbol means.

Option B
Kindergarten - Video: Elmo's Peter and the Wolf
First Grade - Video: Carnival of the Animals
Second Grade - Video: Animusic, Rhythm Coloring Sheet
Third Grade - Video: Animusic, Rhythm Coloring Sheet

Option C
Kindergarten - Ta and Rest Turtle Coloring Sheet (also include a Kidsongs Sing Along DVD)
First Grade - Rhythm Coloring Sheet
Second Grade - Rhythm Coloring Sheet
Third Grade - Treble Clef Coloring Sheet

Option D
Kindergarten - Instrument Packet
First Grade - Rhythm Packet
Second Grade - Rhythm Packet
Third Grade - Recorder Packet

Option E
Kindergarten - Ta and Ti-Ti Coloring Sheet
First Grade - Dynamics Coloring Sheet
Second Grade - Music Symbol Coloring Sheet
Third Grade - Treble Clef BINGO

Option F - Quaver Lesson
I still plan to have Quaver Lessons organized just in case I have a sub who is willing to use technology. These custom lessons include Smart Board games we have played,  music history videos, lesson introduction videos and some of our favorite songs.

Monday, April 25, 2016

Toddler Bucket List

Life changes in so many ways when children are involved. This is my first summer with a toddler and I know I must keep her busy in order keep my sanity. I have made a list of experiences I want her to experience. Summer is a hard time for me because I don't always do well without a schedule. This list also serves as a schedule of sorts to help me stay on track.

What is on your bucket list? What are your favorite memories with your family?

1. Visit different Zoos
2. Read A LOT of Books
3. Visit different Parks
4. Splash Pad
5. Go Swimming
6. VBS
7. Summer Reading Program
8. Picnic Outside
9. Build a Fort
10. Play with Bubbles
11. Draw with Chalk
12. Go on Walks
13. Watch Fireworks
14. Watch a Parade
15. Go Hiking
16. Play with Cousins
17. Play with Friends
18. Visit Family
19. Finger Paint
20. Eat an Ice Cream Cone
21. Go on a Bike Ride
22. Spend Time with Mommy and Daddy
23. Go on a Road Trip
24. Play in a Sprinkler
25. Visit State Parks
26. Paint with Water
27. Play Catch
28. Go Camping (even if it's in the back yard)